One of the most exciting parts of starting preschool or kindergarten is making new friends. For young children, friendships play an important role in building confidence, developing social skills, and creating a sense of belonging at school. But for some kids, meeting new classmates can feel overwhelming.
The good news? There are many ways parents can help their child learn how to connect with others and develop positive relationships. Here are some simple strategies for helping your preschooler or kindergartener make new friends.
1. Talk About What It Means to Be a Friend
Start by explaining what friendship looks like in simple terms. You might say:
- “A friend is someone who shares toys with you.”
- “Friends take turns and listen to each other.”
- “A friend makes you feel happy when you play together.”
These small lessons help children understand how their actions affect others.
2. Role-Play Social Situations
Practice common playground or classroom scenarios at home. Pretend you’re a new classmate, and model how to introduce yourself:
- “Hi, my name is Emma. Do you want to play with me?”
- “Can I sit next to you?”
- “I like your blocks. Can I help build?”
Role-playing gives your child the words and confidence to try these interactions in real life.
3. Encourage Sharing and Turn-Taking
Friendships often begin during play. Practicing sharing, waiting patiently, and taking turns at home prepares children for positive interactions at school. Games, puzzles, or building sets are great ways to reinforce these skills in a fun way.
4. Arrange Playdates or Small Group Activities
If possible, set up short playdates with classmates outside of school. Smaller settings give your child the chance to connect without the hustle and bustle of the classroom. Over time, these relationships often carry over into school, making the environment feel friendlier and more familiar.
5. Model Friendship Skills
Children learn best by watching you. Show kindness, greet neighbors, or talk positively about your own friends. When your child sees you practicing friendship skills, they’re more likely to copy those behaviors.
6. Celebrate Efforts, Not Just Results
Making new friends can take time. Praise your child for trying, whether it’s saying hello to a new classmate or offering to share a toy. Celebrate the small steps, and remind them that every effort counts.
7. Teach Them That It’s Okay if Not Everyone Becomes a Friend
Sometimes, kids will encounter classmates who don’t want to play — and that’s okay. Help your child understand that not everyone will be a close friend, but there are always plenty of opportunities to meet others who are ready to connect.
The Bigger Picture
Learning how to make friends in preschool or kindergarten isn’t just about playtime — it’s about building important life skills. When children know how to introduce themselves, share, and show kindness, they carry those skills into every stage of school and beyond.
A School That Nurtures Friendships
At Youthland Academy, we understand the importance of helping children feel included and connected. Our classrooms encourage cooperative play, group activities, and opportunities for children to develop strong friendships in a safe, nurturing environment.
Contact Youthland Academy today to schedule a tour and learn more about how we support your child’s social and emotional growth while preparing them for lifelong learning.
